Why Some Dads Choose Tattoos to Conceal the Vulnerability of Shedding Tears in Silence

There are many reasons for people to get a tattoo. However, many fathers decide to endure pain to show their children that they are not different.
The young father got a tattoo of the heart surgery scar

Recently, an anonymous father contacted a tattoo artist and requested a tattoo of a long scar. The long red-pink scar on his chest is a copy of his son’s scar after heart surgery.

The father from Chengdu, China was finally satisfied. The media then simultaneously posted a touching message from the father:
“My two-year-old son just had heart surgery, which left him with a long scar on his chest. I’m sorry.” n tattoo marks Such scars are on my chest. Even though my child is too young to understand, when he grows up he may feel guilty because of the scars. I want to support him and show him that I am not different.”

Tattoo artist Go told reporters: “It’s a beautiful and meaningful tattoo. It’s touching to see his immense love for his children.”

The father “draws” a hearing aid on his head

A photo of a father with a cochlear implant tattoo to look like his deaf daughter has warmed the hearts of people around the world.

His daughter is hearing impaired so she has to have a cochlear implant.

This is an electronic device for deaf people to carry sound signals to the brain. The father in the picture was concerned that his daughter might feel self-conscious about having a device attached to her head, so he made his own version – a tattoo.

Although the identities of father and daughter have not been revealed, the image still received thousands of shares and called him a “legendary” father.

The birthmark tattoo runs along the parents’ thigh

Most women mark their 40th birthday with a luxury vacation, spa treatment or expensive jewelry. But for Tanya Phillips, to celebrate her big day, she and her husband Adam lay on the tattoo table for 4 hours each to create red birthmarks running down their legs.

Tanya admits it looks a bit garish and this is something she never dreamed she would do. However, the U40 mother did so for a reason – the couple wanted to get tattoos of red birthmarks similar to what appeared on half of their little girl’s body.

Housewife Tanya said: “Most people might think it’s crazy but for us it’s the natural thing to do to ensure our daughters never feel different or alone in the world.” gender.”

She recalled: “She struggled to breathe when she was born and was immediately taken to special care. When I went to see her, she was just lying in a small incubator.

And when I saw the The red birthmarks covered almost half of her body, my heart was broken. I just cried when I knew they would forever be on her body for the rest of her life.

Like any other mother, I want her to be exactly like any other healthy baby. 

And although the birthmarks are not dangerous, I know they can have a huge impact on her life. Even though in our eyes she is perfect, I know others will point and stare at her cruelly.”

Dad and “monster” tattoo

In March 2015, father Josh Marshall faced the shock that his 8-year-old son Gabriel had brain cancer.

 Due to the malignant tumor, the boy needed surgery as well as treatment to eliminate the disease. For 9 months, the boy steadfastly fought the disease.

However, after those 9 months, there was a long scar on Gabriel’s head next to his right ear, making the boy feel “like a monster”. That’s the word no father wants to hear, so Josh decided to boost his son’s confidence by getting a tattoo of his surgery scar on his head. “I told him if people want to stare, they can stare at both of us.”