When envisioning the ideal family, Rosie Higgs, a mother from Harrow, North London, never thought she would be contemplating her own worth. Her son, Henry Higgs, now 11 months old, delights in playing in the bathtub and showing off his toys. Rosie was informed that her unborn child could have amniotic band syndrome if she had a healthy 20-week pregnancy. Family and friends questioned whether she should proceed with the pregnancy given the significant physical challenges he would face. However, Rosie, a mother of three, is confident that she is going to have her son.

People can lead challenging lives with many restrictions, but Rosie declared, “I didn’t listen. I felt a lot of dizziness and anguish. Henry may not have all his limbs, but I have no doubt he will lead a good and fulfilling life despite his limitations. Henry deserves a chance; Peter and I agreed. Peter was thrilled, and we decided everything together. We are aware that we cannot predict the outcome of the pregnancy. Dealing with children with special needs every day, I trust that Henry will be fine. Being resilient can be intimidating at times. Every four weeks, I had ultrasounds and was closely monitored. To make matters worse, Paula, Rosie’s devoted 55-year-old mother, could give birth at night due to the global pandemic.

“It was horrible not to have my mother when I gave birth, especially knowing that Henry was in distress,” Rosie continued. Fortunately, the midwife is simply exceptional. The midwives asked me if I wanted to meet Henry immediately because I was very anxious and tense throughout the labor. You can’t learn much from the scans. All preparation, and I didn’t know what to expect from Henry when he initially came out. Henry was healthy when he was born on May 13 at Northwick Park Hospital in London, weighing 8 pounds and 2 ounces. The midwives moved Henry to the side while his 39-year-old father, Peter, a supervisor of amenities and facilities at Emirates, went to see Henry first.

As soon as Peter introduced him to me, I fell in love. He is making excellent progress and is extremely content. His morning chatter moved me. Henry is content and enjoys using his high chair, but we must be careful. He has a lively personality and a mischievous smile that never stops. He embraces his older brother. Although he doesn’t have all his arms and legs, he is perfect for me.