The ongoing tension between Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, and Princess Kate, the Princess of Wales, continues to draw public interest. Despite both women marrying into the British royal family, their relationship has been marked by a series of public and private disagreements, leading many to speculate on the possibility of reconciliation.
Meghan’s Rare Insight
In a recent interview with The Cut, Meghan Markle opened up about her relationship with Princess Kate, providing a rare glimpse into their complex dynamic. The interview took place in the £12 million Montecito mansion that Meghan shares with Prince Harry. During the discussion, Meghan, now 43, was asked if she believed there was hope for a reconciliation between herself and the royal family, particularly with Kate.
Meghan’s response hinted at ongoing emotional recovery, stating, “It’s interesting, I’ve never had to sign anything that restricts me from talking. I can talk about my whole experience and make a choice not to.” When pressed on why she hasn’t shared more about her time as a working royal, Meghan simply replied, “Still healing.”
A Once Amicable Relationship
The relationship between Meghan and Kate was not always strained. Early on, their interactions seemed cordial, if not friendly. After Meghan and Harry’s engagement was announced, the couple gave an interview to the BBC, where Meghan praised the Royal Family, including Kate, describing her as “wonderful.” At that time, the trio—Harry, William, and Kate—were often seen together, appearing united in their royal duties.
However, as Meghan revealed in her Netflix documentary Harry & Meghan, there were underlying differences in how she and Kate interacted. Meghan described her first meeting with Kate as surprisingly formal, even behind closed doors. She noted that the formality of the royal family was not just for the public but extended into private interactions as well—a stark contrast to Meghan’s more casual, affectionate demeanor.
The Infamous Wedding Dispute
One of the most talked-about moments in their relationship was a disagreement that occurred shortly before Meghan’s wedding to Prince Harry in 2018. According to reports, the two women had a falling out over the flower girls’ dresses, which led to a tearful confrontation. Initial media reports suggested that Meghan had made Kate cry, but in her interview with Oprah Winfrey, Meghan clarified that it was, in fact, Kate who had made her cry. Meghan emphasized that Kate later apologized, bringing her flowers and a note, which Meghan appreciated. However, the incident marked a turning point in their relationship.
Meghan expressed during the Oprah interview that what hurt her the most was not the disagreement itself but the royal family’s silence when the media falsely reported that she had made Kate cry. Meghan felt unfairly blamed for something she did not do, which deepened the rift between her and the family.
Tensions Over ‘Baby Brain’ Comment
Further tension arose after Meghan reportedly commented on Kate’s hormones during a conversation about wedding preparations. According to Prince Harry’s memoir Spare, Meghan remarked that Kate must have “baby brain,” a comment that Kate did not take kindly to, especially given her struggles with hyperemesis gravidarum during her pregnancies. Although Meghan apologized, explaining that such comments were common among her friends, the incident added to the strain between the two women.
Lip Gloss Incident
Another awkward moment between Meghan and Kate occurred when Meghan asked to borrow Kate’s lip gloss during a royal event. Harry described the exchange in his memoir, noting that Kate reluctantly handed over the lip gloss, and Meghan applied it directly with her finger, much to Kate’s discomfort. Harry referred to the moment as “an American thing,” highlighting the cultural differences that may have contributed to their strained relationship.
The Possibility of Reconciliation
When asked during her interview with The Cut whether she sees a possibility for reconciliation with the royal family, Meghan emphasized the importance of forgiveness. “I think forgiveness is really important. It takes a lot more energy to not forgive. But it takes a lot of effort to forgive,” she said. Meghan also hinted that she has much to say about her experiences but chooses to remain selective in what she shares publicly. “I’ve really made an active effort, especially knowing that I can say anything. I have a lot to say until I don’t. Do you like that? Sometimes, as they say, the silent part is still part of the song,” she concluded.
As the public continues to watch the unfolding relationship between Meghan and the royal family, particularly with Princess Kate, it remains to be seen whether forgiveness and reconciliation will ever truly take place.
