She gave the world her voice โ a voice that defined generations, that carried gospel fire and soulful truth through decades of change. But when the stage lights fade and the applause quiets, Patti LaBelleโs greatest song has always been love.
And now, at 81 years old, the โGodmother of Soulโ has finally opened up about the man who helped her rediscover that love: Eric Seats, the gifted drummer and producer who has stood quietly by her side for nearly a decade.
โPeople see the performer,โ Patti shared in a new interview. โThey see the gowns, the heels, the hair, the spotlight. But behind that woman, thereโs someone who helps me breathe. Someone who brings me peace.โ
๐น The Calm After the Chaos
Patti met Eric when she wasnโt looking for romance. After decades of music, heartbreak, and loss, she had learned to live with solitude โ until one day, rhythm found her again.
He wasnโt from the spotlight. He wasnโt chasing fame. He was simply a man who loved music, loved faith, and loved her without asking her to perform.
โHe makes me laugh,โ Patti said, smiling. โHe reminds me that love isnโt about age. Itโs about energy. Itโs about being seen, truly seen, even when you think your best days are behind you.โ
Those words have melted the internet since they were first shared โ because they carry the kind of honesty that can only come from someone who has lived, loved, and lost in public.
๐ค A Life of Music, A Journey of Heart
Patti LaBelleโs career has always been about truth. From her early days with Labelle to her powerful solo success with hits like โIf You Asked Me Toโ and โNew Attitude,โ her music has celebrated strength, womanhood, and resilience.
But what fans didnโt know โ what she rarely spoke about โ was the quiet loneliness behind all that glitter. The tours. The awards. The standing ovations. โYou come home,โ she said softly, โand the house is too quiet. Thatโs when you realize โ the stage doesnโt love you back.โ
Then came Eric.
And with him, came peace.
โHe never treated me like Patti LaBelle,โ she said. โHe treats me like Patti โ the woman who loves to cook, who prays every morning, who still burns toast sometimes. He reminds me that Iโm human before Iโm anything else.โ
๐ A Love That Defies Time
When their relationship first became public, many questioned the age gap โ nearly 30 years between them. But as time has proven, love doesnโt count birthdays. It counts moments of understanding, laughter, and faith.
Patti addressed that criticism directly:
โPeople talk,โ she said. โThey always have. But let me tell you something โ Iโve earned the right to love who loves me right.โ
And Eric? He has been her quiet protector, her musical partner, her prayer companion. The one who makes sure she eats, rests, and smiles between shows.
โHeโs my calm,โ Patti said simply. โWhen Iโm nervous before a concert, he takes my hand and says, โYouโve done this a thousand times, baby. Just go sing.โ And suddenly, I remember who I am.โ
๐ถ Singing for Memory
In recent years, Pattiโs performances have taken on new meaning. Her voice โ still rich, still full of that unmistakable fire โ carries something softer now. Not sadness, but gratitude.
When she performs โIf Only You Knew,โ fans swear they can see tears in her eyes. And maybe, theyโre right. Because as Patti herself admitted, she no longer sings for fame โ she sings from love.
โThereโs a difference,โ she said. โWhen I was young, I sang to prove something. Now, I sing to thank God for everything โ for the music, for my health, and for the man who stands beside me when the curtain falls.โ
๐๏ธ The Power of Grace
Even as time changes her steps and slows her rhythm, Patti LaBelle remains unstoppable. Her recent television appearances show not just a living legend โ but a woman who has found peace in her truth.
โI donโt chase perfection anymore,โ she laughed. โI chase joy. I chase peace. I chase moments with the people I love. Thatโs what makes me feel alive.โ
She credits Eric for helping her see that. For reminding her that grace isnโt about giving less โ itโs about giving real.
โWhen he looks at me,โ she said, โhe doesnโt see my past or my fame. He sees the woman who still believes in tomorrow.โ
๐ The New Chapter
Now, Patti LaBelle isnโt just celebrating her music โ sheโs celebrating her life. Sources close to the singer confirm that she and Eric Seats are planning a special project together, blending music, mentorship, and storytelling โ something โdeeply personalโ that honors love, legacy, and faith.
Fans everywhere are calling it โthe most beautiful comeback story of the year.โ
And as the world watches Patti continue to sing, cook, laugh, and inspire at 81, one thing is certain: her greatest performance isnโt behind her โ itโs happening now, quietly, beautifully, in the rhythm of love that keeps her heart beating strong.
โจ PATTI LABELLE: The Godmother of Soul โ still singing, still shining, still loved.